Pocono Wedding Talk

A Sunday feature in the Pocono Record newspaper.

  • Weather You Like It or Not

    Mar 19, 2017

    I’m sitting at my desk here in Saylorsburg, Pennsylvania, on a March day. A few weeks ago, we hit a high of almost 70 ° and now it’s snowing like crazy. Unpredictable as the weather, as they say. And I’ve said, a thousand times, what is the rain (or snow) plan? There is nothing like [...]

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  • A few fun DIY ideas for your Wedding

    Mar 12, 2017

    Those who read this column regularly know I try to emphasis the big stuff. The deeper meaning of a wedding, especially the ceremony (my particular area of expertise). But from time to time ‘girls just wanna have fun.’ So here are a few ideas to add some of that fun to your wedding. Photos are [...]

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  • A Sikh Wedding Primer

    Mar 5, 2017

    Chances are most of us will never have the opportunity to attend a wedding from a tradition completely different than our own. While many American Christians may go to weddings in different denominations, or even attend a wedding at a synagogue, and Jews may attend weddings in churches, how many in the Judeo-Christian tradition have [...]

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  • What does it mean to be spiritual?

    Feb 26, 2017

    Spiritual. When asked about their beliefs, this is what I often hear from couples who wish to be married. But what exactly does this mean? Literally, spiritual means ‘relating to things of the human spirit rather than material or physical things.’ But in a more religious context it can mean a wide range of ideas. [...]

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  • Finding or Creating a Beautiful Ceremony Space

    Feb 19, 2017

    Because I officiate so many weddings I have come to recognize what to look for in a great ceremony site. The ceremony – you know, the part where you are actually getting married – is the reason for the ‘big day.’ If your ceremony is not in a house of worship, you may want to think through [...]

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  • History, Symbolism and Using Wine in your Wedding Ceremony

    Feb 12, 2017

    Given the many ways to interpret wine, I’m surprised it’s not used more often! Ernest Hemingway once said that "wine is the most civilized thing in the world."That’s why you can’t go wrong using wine as a symbol in your wedding.

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  • Eight wedding rules it’s ok to skip!

    Feb 5, 2017

    My intent here isn’t to tell you what to do or not to do, but merely relieve you of any guilt you may have in forgoing some of these wedding protocols.

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  • Don’t sing the post wedding blues…

    Jan 29, 2017

    Planning a wedding? It will come and it will go and when the ‘big day’ is over – what then? There was so much leading up to it, so much to do, so much fun and so much stress. Many couples have reported that after the engagement, wedding, or honeymoon, they walk into their home [...]

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  • Let’s Call Them ‘Attendants’

    Jan 22, 2017

    -     Why a gender-neutral wedding party is a great idea The people standing up there with you at your wedding ceremony are more than just statues.  There is a reason you ask your closest friends, siblings or others to be by your side as you exchange your vows. So who are they?  How do [...]

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  • Do you need a wedding program?

    Jan 15, 2017

    I’m away this week so I thought it would be a good idea to run this older piece. Why? Because everyone planning a wedding eventually comes to this question: should I have a ceremony program? As the big day approaches I sometimes hear from ‘my’ couples, asking for the ‘order of service.’ I know immediately [...]

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